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Gateways

These activities will get you where you want to be, but keep you free of STDs. But these activities are almost always a gateway to something more. This is a great place to start, feel safe and still get your rocks off. Then, think carefully about what you want before taking the next steps.


Masturbation: Sex solo. You are never rejected. Plus, it’s quick, easy and you always leave a satisfied customer. Just make sure your bedroom door is locked. The best part--- ain't no way to get any STDs or HIV. 


Pornography: Watching a sex act on the internet, DVD, or cell for arousal. Can be viewed alone or with someone special.  Caution: actions in porn may appear sexier than they actually are.


Hand jobs: Using your hands to stroke a man or woman’s genitals. Oh, the joy of a good hand job! It’s totally safe in terms of HIV transmission but herpes and HPV can be passed this way. 


Kissing: To press lips together. To tongue or not to tongue, that is the question. Passing HIV through saliva is not a possibility, so swap spit to your heart’s content!


Dildos: A sex toy used to penetrate the vagina or anus. It can provide pleasure to the prostate. Be sure to properly clean your toys to avoid STD's and infections. Silicone dildos and butt plugs can be cleaned in the dishwasher or in boiling water. Silicone toys can take a soap and water bath. 


Edging: Masturbating, but not cumming.  Do it on your own, have your partner do it, or maybe they want to watch you do it yourself. Fun, safe, sexy.


Tickling: Light-hearted torture - with no exchange of body fluids.


Shrimping: The nerve endings between the toes are an erogenous zone. Some people cum this way! 


Teabagging: Placing a man’s balls in your mouth. Be gentle with his huevos!


Piss Play: Water sports - urine fetish. Urinating on someone's body, genitals or face. Not for the faint of heart.  The risk of contracting something is low, but the clean-up is a bitch. 


Phone sex/sexting:  Flirting, talking, whispering, teasing or texting sexual suggestion on your hand held.   For voyeurs, first-timers, germaphobes, teases and those who benefit from a little distraction from the 9-to-5 grind.


Chatting online: Erotic cyber chat that builds up sexual tension, which may lead to a hook up or leave you with blue balls. Careful—privacy online isn’t what it used to be.


Webcam/ Skypesex: With a camera attached to your computer you can be the Super Voyeur. Watch someone do what you request. Uber safe: show me yours, and I will show you mine!